Definition of Success~~

Yesterday,someone asked me about what is the definition of success??
Well,this is a good question which bothering me until today...

Someone says this

Success = money

While someone thinks this

living in a big house (like a castle in fact) = success??

Yet

Having this as your pet = success??

Somehow

Got a wife like she (I wish too) = success??

If owning all of this,then am I become like him??

OMG...I'm just 21,I haven't can reach that level
Success for me is...being a kind person,ya,being a kind person,achieve what I set in my life,living by happily,that's all...Simply the best
But then,if something happened like that,then will I become this?

!!!!!!!!!!!

Ghost Day

Today there got something rare happened in Nanjing,that is RAINING!!!

Wow wow,honestly,I don't like raining in Nanjing.Why?Because in here I have to walk by my legs,I hate wet feeling at my feet.Yet,I am happy that this raining made the temperature of this summer become more windy and cold,thanks god~~~

Today is ghost day,we Malaysian 'celebrate' it at 14th,but China mainland here is at 15th (in Chinese calendar),so that's mean there is time delay for ghost door open??HA HA

When look in the mirror,found that myself is fat,so much oil at my stomach there,keep fit lo~~~Tomorrow there going to be 4 Indonesian come here,freshmen,I wonder next time how we going to talk secret.Using Malay cannot,Chinese cannot,Cantonese?Hakka?HA HA

And,today received someone's sms,omg...So miss her,really glad that she is still remembered me,haha...Thanks ya

Tata~~~

2 months holiday just passed like a light for me.For the 1st time I have this kind of feeling "I am having a 'pack' holiday,busy on most of the time.Yet,I am very enjoy by this kind of life.

Yesterday night I was thinking,what have I learned and what should I write in my blog.Answer is comes with nothing.There was too much for arranged.Lol

I have some friend having love problems each of everyday,I don't know since when I being a love consoler?Honestly,I have no idea on how to solve their problem,I was thinking,why they need to be so suffer for another who is always made them angry,disappointed,or even not love them?There are a lot to be done in life instead of love.Spend so much time for being sad in love better be happy in others matter.Since can't find the one who really can understand you well or support u totally,better wait~~It will comes when it comes

the day before yesterday, an elder told me something,he is the one of the successful person in China "比起老人家，他们受的苦，比我们要上几倍，经历了战争，无数的生离死别，我们是肯定不能比他们更苦了，如果我们连乐都不能比得上他们，那生活真没意义了，所以要比他们活得乐..."